The link at the end of this text takes you to an interview with a professor of international relations, Alexander Wendt, done by Sean Illing for Vox. The article was updated on July 24, 2020, because of the New York Times (NYT) article about the Pentagon's Unidentified Aerial Phenomenon Task Force (there is a link to the NYT-article in Illing's article).
My main point with this text is to highlight the fact that most people who study credible data on the UFO phenomenon will end up with the conclusion that there is a real phenomenon worthy of a scientific investigation. Most people reaching that conclusion can separate the issue of UFOs being real from what they are. Sadly, unsound sceptics like Seth Shostak and Neil deGrasse Tyson try to make it the case that everyone interested in the UFO phenomenon cannot differentiate between those two issues.
For sure, some UFO believers have a hard time understanding the difference between saying that UFOs are real and what/who is behind UFOs. But Sean Illing and Alexander Wendt do not fit into that category. I think both Illing and Wendt's approach to the UFO phenomenon, and their conversation in the interview, can serve as a model of how to be and stay, both open-minded and sceptical.